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3d ago
inCan we talk about how everyone says first editions matter, because my $2 thrift copy from Columbus reads just fine
Reads just fine" now, but a first edition holds value later.
7d ago
inTook me 3 years to realize open adoption isn't a verdict, it's a negotiation
Yes, this. The renegotiating part is the actual relationship, not some failure of it. People want open adoption to be a tidy little box so they can stop thinking about it, but kids grow and birth parents move and jobs change and you have to keep adjusting to what's real right now. I feel like the families that struggle most are the ones who wrote the plan once and then hold onto it like a law, even when it stops fitting anyone. Two meetups plus texting in Denver is not less open, it's just what open actually looks like from that far away. And honestly, the fact that you two keep coming back to the table and redrawing lines together shows way more trust than a paper agreement ever could. The plan is not the point, the people are the point.
8d ago
inShowerthought: spent $80 on a bread maker and went back to $3 hands after 4 months
That "weird hard crust on the bottom" is so real, mine did the same thing and I kept thinking I was messing up the settings. Sorry you went through all that, it's a bummer when a gadget makes more work instead of less. Hand kneading is honestly kind of relaxing anyway, so at least you're not losing anything.