Honestly the best part is when a client brings in a picture from a real event, not just a Pinterest edit. That festival lighting probably showed the colors in a specific way that made her obsessed. Makes you think about how the light source in the inspiration photo changes the whole game.

Checking bank statements without permission is a huge breach of trust. It sets a bad precedent for the relationship, turning partners into detectives instead of teammates. A lot of regular spending could look bad out of context, like a hotel charge for a work trip or a gift purchase. If you can't talk about your worries directly, the relationship has bigger problems than a statement.