I was so pumped to try developing at home after reading all the tips here. Set everything up carefully in my kitchen last night. Somehow, I grabbed the fixer bottle thinking it was developer. The negatives dried completely clear, with no images at all. All my shots from a day at the fair are just gone now. I feel so bummed out over such a silly mix-up. Definitely labeling my bottles better next time.
Man, that's the worst kind of gut punch. Were you using clear bottles or did the labels just wear off? I've started putting big strips of colored tape on mine, like red for developer and green for fixer, because my brain absolutely will shut off after a long day.
That moment when a simple mix-up wrecks something you cared about just hits different. It happens everywhere, like putting salt in your coffee instead of sugar or taking the wrong highway exit and adding an hour to your trip. The brain just goes on autopilot sometimes. It's wild how a tiny slip in a routine can have such a huge, annoying cost. Really feels like life's way of keeping us on our toes, even when it's the worst.